I can be that mom.
I tend to be 5 minutes (perhaps more like 15) late to most events, slide Nikes on chubby feet as we are exiting the Sequoia, and am usually in gym clothes simply because they are easier to throw on. – Do I also need to mention the elastic waistband?!
But as an educator of 13 years, I know better.
I know that children thrive on routine.
I know that children do best when prepared.
I know that children want to succeed.
And to do so, we need to do a couple of things that will help success.
Back To School; 5 Tips Towards a Smooth Transition
1. Preregister Your Kindergartener During Summer Vacation
This will ensure that your child is placed in a Kindergarten classroom prior to the first day of school.
The teacher will have your child’s name on their roster before the first day. This will help the Kindergarten teacher learn your child’s name prior to the first day of school.
Remember, teachers write your child’s name 30 plus times before the first day of school if they are on their roster. By the time your child walks in for the first time, the teacher will be expecting them! Your child will also feel included by already seeing their name on a coat hook, table, folder, and much more.
2. Attend Open House
Open House usually occurs the week prior to the first day of school. Vacation planned? Cancel it, or come back early. Attending Open House is critical for a smooth transition for the first day of school.
Open House allows your child to meet the teacher, visit the classroom, and walk the halls. Parents can also walk their child throughout the building.
At Open House, you can also calmly show some of the following:
the principal, refer to their name
the vice principal, refer to their name
the custodial staff
the main office
the media center
pick a few that you think cater’s to your child’s needs without overwhelming them
3. Read Books
Read books about the first day. This will provide your child with visuals and help prepare them for common school procedures. A large part of Kindergarten is social interactions.
Here are some Amazon Affiliate books to read before the big day!
4. Trust that the Teacher will Explain it All
Your confidence in the teacher will help your child feel secure as you drop them off. Refer to the teacher by name and learn the names of their classmates. Your child will enjoy feeling like you are both in this together.
Say goodbye at the door and assure your child that you will be back when the school day is over. Do not sneak out. This will cause more anxiety. Allow the teacher to gently guide your child to their seat.
Most children adjust quickly once their parents leave. If you feel anxious about this step, leave your email or phone number on a sticky note on the teacher’s desk. Ask them to send you a quick message letting you know once things have calmed down.
5. Celebrate the First Day
My sister-in-law sends her children off on their first day in the sweetest way! She cuts a watermelon into the letter of the grade they are going into, and decorates a special wooden letters for them to hold. You can see them beaming with pride!